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Your couple chat, analyzed message by message.

Partner, situationship, crush or ex: who's more invested, who always reaches out, and the week everything changed.

Nathan ⏳ we'll see
5,240 messages
Julien
hey you 👀21:02
oh, you're alive? 6 days of nothing21:05
Julien
been swamped at work21:31
you know how it is21:31
not really no21:32
Julien
come on don't be mad 😅21:58
so are we seeing each other saturday?21:59
Julien
def, I'll let you know this week22:40
you said that last time22:41
Julien
promise this time 🙏23:15

What Otto looks at

  • ✓Who texts first, and how often
  • ✓Each person's reply times, and how they change
  • ✓Late-night texts and the longest silences
  • ✓Mixed signals and broken promises
  • ✓An honest verdict and 3 concrete tips

What people ask him

  • “Do they really care about me?”
  • “Who makes more effort?”
  • “Have things cooled off?”

FAQ

How does Otto work?+

You export a chat from WhatsApp, iMessage, Instagram or Messenger, import it here, and Otto crunches the stats (who talks most, reply times, hours, emojis…) then writes a report with scores, exact quotes, awards and a verdict.

Is it free?+

The preview is free: all the stats and the first analysis. The full report costs €9.99, one-time payment, no subscription.

Are my chats safe?+

The file is read directly in your browser and isn't stored on our servers. Only a text excerpt is sent to our AI provider to write the report; we don't keep it, and it's never used to train an AI. You can delete everything in one click from the report page.

How do I export a WhatsApp chat?+

iPhone: open the chat, tap the name at the top, “Export Chat”, then “Without Media”. Android: ⋮ → More → Export chat → Without media. Then import the .zip or .txt file.

What about iMessage, Instagram or Messenger?+

iMessage: export the conversation as .txt from a Mac with a tool like imessage-exporter or iMazing. Instagram and Messenger: request a download of your information in JSON format from Meta's Accounts Center, then import the chat's message_1.json file.

Now it's your chat's turn.